" –Valeria Marquez, Facebook "Be okay with being by yourself.You'll enjoy it so much more when you add someone meaningful to your life and even when things don't work out, you'll still have that joy of being with yourself." – Danit Ehrlich, Facebook "Don't change who you are for ANYONE!
Besides, what you saw as an 'ideal' partner back in college may be totally different now!"There are opportunities to meet men all the time, and men will approach you when you're approachable." The easiest way to make yourself more approachable to men is to pay attention and smile."Learn how to say hello or compliment somebody," Della Casa advises."If a guy smiles at you, smile back." Take care of yourself.That means the majority of ladies are out finding "the one" long after the frat party is over.and Alisa Ruby Bash, a marriage and family therapist, about the best ways to meet men in your post-college years. "Most women tend not to find their future husbands in college anymore," explains Bash.